How to Be Sassy and Why It Matters

Have you ever been told that being sassy is a good thing?

Or better yet, a great thing?

Or even better than that, an awesome thing?

Or even better than THAT, the thing?

If you haven’t, then you are in for quite the enlightening today.

You see, to be awesome in this world, you need to know how to be sassy.

And to actually be sassy.

Why is that you might ask?

Well, for starters, we sassy people just stick out more.

We demand what we want out of life and we get it.

Anyway, we are vivacious all of the time and we are not apologetic about it.

We express ourselves all of the time and we do not let others define our behaviors.

We are certainly not robots that fake behaviors all day long.

And if you are reading this, you know who they are.

We are honest with everything.

We never lie in any circumstance.

We are honest with what we want, we are honest when we speak to people even if it’s unpleasant, as you can see, and we are not ashamed to be that way.

In fact, it’s a way of life.

So if you are like “Uh, this guy is crazy,” just cut that mindset right now.

Instead, your mind should be thinking “Who is this guy and can he be a friend or an enemy to me?” And it’s definitely not going to be the last one unless you make it out to be.

Because I do this for you with the best customer service in the world.

Yeah I do it for me to make myself happy and make some dough, and by some I mean a whole lot of it, and create my big gigantic empire out of Join the Island, but I am doing it for you to help you and to see you reach your self-actualization and to get to your own self-defined island.

Listen, every time that we sassy people are in a conversation, we are unforgettable.

We become remembered for being crazy, outrageous, AAAAWKWARRRRRRRD, and well-liked at the end.

We are not normal, we just do what we have to do to be happy.

And if that means calling someone for what he or she is, so be it.

If it’s making someone’s day, so be it.

If it’s singing in the rain, so be it.

And remember, we are shameless and we create life.

By now I have you convinced that you need to become sassy.

And if you aren’t, read the beginning again.

So, how does one become sassy?

It all comes down to empowering yourself.

Here’s how to accomplish ultimate sassiness:

Become 100% Confident in YOU

This is a completely obvious one.

Without this, you can’t be sassy.

Plain and simple.

Confidence is the ultimate weapon for being the sassy one.

You have to trust yourself that YOU have the power to take any situation and make it work for you.

And if that means calling people out and making them give you that shocked face, so be it.

With confidence, you have the gusto to be yourself (or find yourself if you haven’t) and say to the world “This is who I am and I’m not ashamed to admit it.”

You cannot believe how rare it is today for someone to do this and be 100% confident in him or herself.

If you do this, you are literally that bright star in the sky that everybody just knows.

Everyone will honestly admire you for who you are.

No one will deny your greatness and you will always have the attention of those that you want attention from.

And also, being 100% confident in yourself will allow you to actually produce the results that you need to produce to get to where you need to go.

Reason: You’ll actually have drive and belief for what you are doing.

And when you have that belief and drive, oh boy you’ll let that lion out of the cage!

You’ll do anything and everything that you need to do to accomplish whatever it is that you want.

You will not be limited with certain behaviors that might be hindering your progress.

You’ll just go full out, 100% on your goal and YOU crush it.

And that’s lively in itself.

And when the doubters come out, that’s when you become sassy and say “Oh you boobs, you guys are just sitting there doing nothing and I’m out here crushing it. Shame on you all. HA!”

Talk some smack to those haters of yours and rile up that crowd!

That’s a sassy one!

And when you are 100% confident, you’ll just say to your doubters either nothing, which is actually ok and in some cases preferred, or you could do this:

“You all doubt me? I’ll prove it to you buttheads that I’ll get it done and embarrass you all at the same time. And I just can’t wait to see the looks on your faces!”

That’ll stir up some curiosity around you.

Just know that when you say that, you MUST deliver.

Otherwise, they’re correct to doubt.

And they don’t need to be sorry and they don’t need to not be sassy.

And that is not great for you.

So remember, when you decide to become sassy, you MUST do the following:

1. Become 100% confident in what you are doing and that you’ll achieve what you want to achieve

2. Deliver what you promise

Otherwise, don’t be sassy.

Be under the rock like this guy.

Because if you promise and don’t deliver, get ready to be grilled. However, if you deliver, get ready to be worshipped.

Don’t Apologize Unless it’s Major

Please note: If you made a major error (you know what the major errors are), you must apologize for it.

No way around it.

And always, please treat everyone with kindness and respect at first always.

And only if they provoke the negativity, then you don’t have to apologize.

Simply put, if it’s your fault, apologize.

Everyone will catch you later on if you don’t.

If it’s not your fault and you are 100% confident and you know you have achieved something or have achieved something, you better not apologize.

These demons just want to get credit for things that you have already done or are doing.

These are insecure buttheads who have nothing better to do with their lives except criticize, criticize and criticize.

They’re going nowhere, and you’re superior to them in every way.

So when the sassy one gets criticized, the sassy one will say what I told you in the 100% confident section.

And continue what he or she is doing and don’t quit.

And don’t forget this:

It’s contagious and it’ll bring a lot to you.

Not doing that and it’ll cost you big time.

Do you want to have a frown in traffic, or do you want to be living with all of that everlasting joy?

I thought so.

And that smile will bring something else to you: The foundation for the next part of becoming sassy.

Have Fun; a lot of fun

Please note that boring sucks.

So unless you are in a courtroom and the judge says to calm down or you’re in the hospital, don’t be boring.

Always have fun somehow.

You can’t have any sass or any memorable nature about you if you aren’t having fun.

And besides, you have one life, why the hell are you going to be boring?

There’s no point in that.

Now, this doesn’t mean go on vacation.

You’re wasting your time doing that unless you achieved what you sought out to achieve.

But that doesn’t mean that you can’t create fun out of any situation.

You can.

And you should.

It’ll motivate you and make you much more worthy of a person.

And that worthiness of being fun while accomplishing what you desire will gravitate people towards you and support you.

They’ll support you, respect you, and bring the entire world around you to see you and help you.

And you get to scream out to the world that you are accomplishing what you are doing and you are having fun while doing it!

That’ll make people very uncomfortable but really admire you at the same time.

And that is someone who is really sassy.

You are super fun and you’re doing what you are doing.

What better combo really?!

And I’ll say it again.

Please don’t be boring.

I double dare you.

Flash Out

And now the best part of being sassy.

You FLASH OUT!

Meaning, you use everything that has been mentioned towards what you are doing and you just show it off to the world!

You create that unique person in you combined with your purpose and you let the whole world know about it.

You tell them who is coming and you show no signs of slowing down!

You are the well-oiled machine blazing through to the promised land and accomplishing your mission.

You become the brand, the trend, the icon, the inspiration, and the life changer to yourself.

And if other people buy-in, great.

If not, so be it.

But you are living your own character and separating yourself and your mission from all of the common factors and you are not apologetic about it.

Now of course, please satisfy the market to make your bank. Because that is what is going to let you eat and get you super-wealthy.

But even then, go all out with the sassiness in every appropriate situation and don’t let your guard down in anything that you do.

That’ll get all of the attention for your brand and who you are and what you are providing to the marketplace.

It really can’t get better than that.

What to Do Now

Now that you have read and know what it takes to be sassy, it is time to apply what you have learned. So for this activity, grab a sheet of paper and a pen and do these steps:

1. Know what your LOVE is from the LOVE column.

2. Say to yourself that you will pursue this LOVE regardless of the circumstances.

3. Never apologize for pursuing your LOVE ever.

4. Have a plan if you haven’t about how you will get money to pursue your LOVE.

Please note: Pursuing your LOVE immediately will typically not result in any financial rewards, which means you must do something that is in demand and solves people’s problems.

And you must get wealthy first, not rich, in order to do the LOVE unless the LOVE satisfies the market’s demands.

5. Always follow this one:

Think and do big every day.

Really.

Thinking big is one of the keys to getting big results.

Of course, thinking big doesn’t mean anything without the correct action.

That’s why I encourage you to read a book called “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill, which is considered the 2nd bible amongst the most successful people in the world.

Every successful person (or at least almost every successful person) who read this book became successful in their endeavors as a result of reading this book and acting on its advice.

It is extremely powerful and it can make a tremendous difference in your efforts to accomplish what you want.

I encourage you to pick up a copy here from Amazon right now.

Implement it and you will see a massive difference in the outcomes of your actions.

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Make it happen, my friend 😉

Until next time,

This is Evan signing off.